My husband n i split up 6 mths ago n he got himself new polish gfriend 7 mths ago?

i stil sleep wit him n i told her da other day i tink tat was bad move cos now my husband who is da nicest man u could meet is tinks im peice of **** on his shoe.. wat am i suppose 2 do now my 4 year old is stuck in middle

My husband n i split up 6 mths ago n he got himself new polish gfriend 7 mths ago?
I think you should have a talk with your ex-husband and his girlfriend.Try talking the situation out and try to find a solution that doesn't hurt your 4yr old son.You don't want anything to scar him in anyway.If you resolve the problem like adults then in time he will come to see you as the wonderful person he saw you before.Right now he's probably feeling hurt that you told her,but you were doing what you thought was best and no one can blame you for that.I hope everything goes well for you and your son.Good Luck
Reply:Phone the illegal immigrant hot-line .. and get her shipped back to Poland
Reply:You're the foolish one who is continuing to sleep with him, knowing he has another woman on the side. He treats you the way you allow him to treat you--so you really have only yourself to blame for his treating you like ****.





p.s. I would say spell check is a wonderful thing...but I don't think a computer's even equipped to deal with your abyssmal spelling, grammar and punctuation. Please don't use text speak here...we don't understand it!
Reply:Stop sleeping with him for a start.... you are not split from him if you are still having sex with the man. Neither of you can move on from this while you are sharing intimate times. I would prob be the same though and tell the new woman what was going on, she does have a right to know after all.
Reply:I will tell you those FN's will keep him happy in the bedroom. There not as uptight as American woman can sometimes be.
Reply:one your not text messaging Y/A so I think you are try to say your husband has other woman. What are your suppose to due, take care of that little girl it not her fault that you chose a loser for a father, then I would ask him if he wants to reconcile the marriage and seek counseling together, if not then get a good divorce lawyer and sue both, yes both for destroying a child life. If the other woman is the cause for the split up then she too needs to pay, that what wrong with America today they allow the other persons to destroy our families and pay no consequences.
Reply:Why are you still sleeping with your husband, when you know that he is dating someone else. i say move on with your life, and get child support from your husband.
Reply:You need to start seeing him as the dad to your child (im assuming he is) and that's it.





If a guy leaves you and gets with someone else, that should be enough for you to stop pining over him and pull yourself together!





Think of your child, what kind of example might you be setting? They need to come first.
Reply:sweetie the time doesnt add up.........he left you 6 months ago but has a new g/f 7 months ago........so he was cheating on you for 1 month???? well stop giving him a piece of azz.....you are putting your child in the middle as a mother when you sleep with him and your daughter sees you two together.
Reply:polish gf-sweet!
Reply:Divorce and move on. Your 4 year old is starting school soon; you may want to better yourself for his/her sake. Your marriage is ruined, and it wasn't because you told your husband's girlfriend. This is so sad for your child. Why don't parents think of their children before they do stupid things that will affect them. Yeah, behave like morons if you want, but when it starts affecting your child, you've got to really stop and think.
Reply:STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM.
Reply:like i said before, grow up.





Harsh, maybe. Right, absolutley.
Reply:ok.....back away everyone..i think its confused.
Reply:Dont sleep with him


accept it


move on
Reply:stop sleeping with him. he only comes around cause he knows you will give in. and he is not the nicest man you could meet. split up 6 months ago but got a girlfriend 7 months ago? not nice!!!!! i have lived this whole scenario. its time to let go. move on. the thing to do now is take care of you and your child and make sure daddy is involved with the child and helping with support. and above all keep your child out of the middle of your adult problems.
Reply:if your man was the nicest man you could meet.... why then has he left you 6months ago for someone else he meet 7 mths ago........ think you should be treating him like a piece of dirt dont you flowerhead
Reply:how can your husband be the nicest person if you have been separated for 6 months and he has a new girl friend for 7 months? I think you are delusional or on drugs
Reply:I don't really understand, you slept with your ex and he thinks your shittt cuz he has a girlfriend? Don't sleep with him!
Reply:Well firstly he isn't nice at all. He has responsibilities which he threw aside for a new gf. Lucky old him that he can do that. He is also sleeping with two women and expecting you to accept the situation. He is so far from nice that I would suggest that you head for the hills! How could anyone with half an active brain cell put up with this? You take care of your child and cross your legs.
Reply:Let him go and stop sleeping with him. Regain your dignity walk away let him have his girlfriend, divorce him and move on so that you are not the thing on his shoe. You are worthy and worth more than what he is offering. You file for child support and give him visitation rights and you stay away from him so that he can see that you don't need him and your not going to waste away just because he isn't there.
Reply:WOW!!!you went from being his wife to being his side piece.....how low can you go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:really he was sleeping with both of you and this behaviour gives him the right to judge..not such a nice man...
Reply:your four year old is not stuck in the middle you are the one that has the issues dont sleep with him again and if you do be careful cause it might hurt more than just you
Reply:You ARE a piece of **** on his shoe, and you seem happy to be. If you want to change it, stop seeing him, though make sure he sees his child. He has done you wrong, but not his child.
Reply:Pray God is always listing!


Talk to him!


God bless!


maybe you were not spending enough time with him.
Reply:You sound like a n0b love!
Reply:If you guys split up 6 months ago, %26amp; he found a new g/f 7 months ago.....sounds like he was cheating on you!!!!!!! Find yourself a new man %26amp; stop sleeping with this loser!!!
Reply:Hi there, that you call your husband the nicest man in the world yet tell us that he was unfaithful to you, left you for another woman and now sleeps with you and her and is NOW treating you like a piece of s*** is bizarre. Honey your man has been treating you like that from the get go. As for your 4 year old, she seems to come last in your priorities. You need to have alook at whats going on and open your eyes, get rid of this guy and look after your daughter....
Reply:first stop sleeping w/him.


second, get your 4 year old into therapy and probably yourself too.


third spell check!
Reply:lol if i were i would ask 4 a divorce


peace.



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