Was this a romantic thing to do, or a little too creepy?

There's this girl I like, she works in the Mall that I do. We haven't spoken, but I've looked at her a lot so maybe she's looked at me? Anyway, I saw her getting out of her car and got her plate #. My cousin at the DMV hooked me up with her home address. I went there at night and tied 10 heart-shaped balloons to her car. Then I wrote 4-EVER on the windshield with shoe polish (it doesn't come off- who knew?).





The next day I came up to her at the mall and told her it was me. I was so nervous!! But she seemed more upset than anything. I tried to talk to her after work but she got in her car and started to drive away. I kicked her tires and screamed that I loved her...but I'm getting a bad feeling about this.





Did I go over the line?? PLease help!! Steve Simmons is heartsick!

Was this a romantic thing to do, or a little too creepy?
Dude you went sooooo far over the line you can't even see it anymore. You are lucky she didn't have you arrested. Creepy would be an improvement for you. Did she say anything negative to you, or call you any names? If she did, I'm sure you cried like a little girl who had her favorite doll taken away from her. I just figured, to how sensitive you are to people saying negative things about you. WAH!





Even though you are a little cry baby, I will give you solid advice. Keep away from her. Don't even try to talk to her anymore. You just need to move on and next time try talking to the girl before you start to stalk her. If she doesn't want to talk to you, don't stalk her.
Reply:I would get a lawyer because if you ever speak to her again or so much as look at her you will most likely be heading for prison.
Reply:That's borderline stalker there buddy.
Reply:Sorry, but that was a really freaky thing to do! Imagine if someone tied balloons to YOUR car when you weren't expecting it and wrote 4-EVER on the windshield? Kinda menacing, isn't it? Kicking her tires was also way out of line. Next time you like someone just talk to them, yeah?
Reply:You went into the world of stalking. I would leave her alone and hope she doesn't call the police on you for vandalism.
Reply:You're funny! Nice try!
Reply:That's actually pretty good. Be persistent. Romance always trumphs creepiness. Write a message on the counter at her job (Abercrombie??) "Youre everything I hope for - everything I dream....." permanent marker (pretty sure that will wash but better if not), believe it, she will be the first to see then 'woosh,' swept off her feet.





Good luck to you, don't be nervous you'll blow it
Reply:Are you serious? Do you really need to ask this? Wasnt her reaction enough to show that u freaked her out, bad!


This is called stalking - you researched her private details, like where she lives...and now believe u r in love with this person that u dont actually know...


this is a joke, right?
Reply:Well, you went a little overboard that's obvious. Now it's time to fix what you did wrong. First, talk to her as sanely and calmly as possible. Apologize to her but tell her that you do care for her. Then back off. You told her how you feel. She knows you did it with a good intention so what's next just leave it up to her.





Sometimes, it just isn't meant to be.
Reply:you are soooo creepy. You have to keep in mind, she may have never noticed you before, and so: Here's this stranger who's stalking her, and is madly in love with her from afar. It would creep me out. I wouldn't approach her. And saying I LOVE YOU probably ruined any chances with her. I would write her a note(leave it on her windshield, while parked at the shopping mall, DON'T FOLLOW HER HOME and do it!). Apologize for what happened and explain that it will never happen again. Tell her you went overboard. You didn't mean to scare her. Tell her if she is ever interested that she can call you. I wouldn't get my hopes up for that though... If all else fails tell her it was a joke. Only give her ONE note, and end it there, or she will probably take leagal action. Bottom line, leave her alone, let it go. Your intentions were good, but she doesn't know that.
Reply:You're not in love... you need psychological help!
Reply:dude, that is totally normal. i think you should do it one more time, but use 20 balloons this time!





she will love it
Reply:it sounds like u had good intentions but i think that was excessive..especially nowadays with all these creeps..id say it was to extreme and maybe u should apologize and explain that u were just trying to be romantic and u arent a psycho..hopefully she will understand..its sad cuz under like movie circumstances that would of been romantic but in real life kinda scary for some
Reply:That is really romantic! You should try beating her and then tell her that you do it because you love her so much! After a few punches, if they are hard enough, she will start to get your message. The harder you hit her, the more you love her. Thanks for the crazy idea mister.
Reply:That is called stalking and harassment.
Reply:Yeah sorry I agree it's too creepy. if you would have just tied one heart balloon and then a week later sent her a card and some flowers from say 'Mr. Right' asking her if she wanted to meet you then that would have been romantic, shoe polish and yelling... waaaay overboard.
Reply:wow I would have freaked out if someone did that and yeah its creepy
Reply:To be young and in love. I envy you Steve Simmons.



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